FACEBOOK, BOOBIES AND WHY YOUR DAUGHTERS NEED TO PUT SOME CLOTHES ON!!

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Here is an article that one of our biggest EP fans just sent me…

This is an article from Science Daily and if you would like to see the article in it’s original format, you can check it out HERE. 

The study, published in the journal Pediatrics, shows that 30 percent of teenagers reported having offline meetings with people they have met on the Internet and whose identity had not been fully confirmed prior to the meeting.

“These meetings may have been benign, but for an adolescent girl to do it is dangerous,” says Jennie Noll, PhD, a psychologist at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center and the study’s lead author.

Moreover, abused or neglected teenage girls were more likely to present themselves online in a sexually provocative way than other teenage girls. Research shows that high-risk, online profiles are more likely to lead to offline meetings, according to Dr. Noll, director of research in behavioral medicine and clinical psychology at Cincinnati Children’s.

“If someone is looking for a vulnerable teen to start an online sexual discourse, they will more likely target someone who presents herself provocatively,” she says. “Maltreatment poses a unique risk for online behavior that may set the stage for harm.”

Dr. Noll and her colleagues studied 251 adolescent girls between the ages of 14 and 17. About half were victims of abuse or neglect.

If families installed Internet filtering software at home, it made no difference in the association between maltreatment and high-risk Internet behaviors, says Dr. Noll. These behaviors included intentionally seeking adult content, provocative self-presentations on social networking sites and receiving sexual advances online. On the other hand, “high quality parenting” and parental monitoring helped reduce the association between adolescent risk factors and these online behaviors, she says.

The new study is part of a larger body of Dr. Noll’s work on high-risk Internet behaviors. In a previous, pilot study, she asked girls whether they have ever met anyone offline after meeting them online and heard some “chilling” stories,” she says.

“One patient told a story about a guy who started texting her a lot, and he seemed ‘really nice.’ So she agreed to meet him at the mall, she got in his car, they drove somewhere and he raped her.”

The Pediatrics study was supported by a grant (R01HD052533) from the National Institutes of Health. Her continuing work is funded by a five-year, $3.7 million federal grant to gain deeper data about high risk Internet behaviors.

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2 Comments on "FACEBOOK, BOOBIES AND WHY YOUR DAUGHTERS NEED TO PUT SOME CLOTHES ON!!"

  1. Kelli January 23, 2013 at 1:44 pm - Reply

    I have a 13 y.o. daughter and a 12 y.o. son with FB accounts and e-mail addresses. I monitor both for different issues. With my daughter I’ll often ask who someone is or what the conversation is regarding. If I see someone rude or making sexual comments I just tell her to delete them but the thing I like most is when she says, “You know my Mom reads this don’t you?”
    Now for my 12 y.o. step-son, his bio Mom choose to get the FB page so they could stay in touch when she moved to another state, the problem is what SHE posts on her FB. We’ve actually had to block her updates, etc. from coming up in his news feed. The confrontation with her would be overwhelming so instead I’m using it to teach him that sometimes there’s just things to avoid in this world and you have to choose to do that.
    Lord have mercy on me when the 10 and 8 year old get old enough to have them! This monitoring of electronics is hard and time consuming!!! My 13 year old isn’t allowed to delete texts so I have to go through hers once a week, the worst is when it’s 3 days worth of “Mooing” or “Quacking” at a friend :)

  2. Lindsey Whitney January 24, 2013 at 9:11 pm - Reply

    Not to sound like a total prude, but I am so appalled at the pictures some teenage girls I know put on facebook. Some of the girls are in our church youth group and no matter how many “gentle reminder” messages I send… it is just not getting through. Things like this are so scary because I do see so many of these girls as so vulnerable. Thankfully, my own kids aren’t old enough for facebook yet!

    Lindsey @ GrowingKidsMinistry.com

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